7:45PM BBT: While most of the house was outside doing Pilates, Kaysar was in the bathroom area with Danielle.  He was telling her his deepest, darkest secret...  He went to a Yanni concert.  Danielle was in  hysterics over this revelation.  Dani admitted she doesn't take time to see how others are feeling, she just gets angry. Kaysar explained how you have to understand feelings and stuff. Danielle says she doesn't say she is sorry much, she is hard headed. Kaysar's theory is it is harder during the honey moon phase. Danielle says her and her husband were married with kids, so they never had time together alone. Her first time of taking time for herself was BB3. She says it is always about the kids. Danielle is looking forward to the kids being on their own without the kids and still being young. Kay wants to know if she regrets not having a life as a young adult. Dani says she has time to do that still, they almost have their family raised and they are still young. She is 34 years old and was 16 when she had her first child. She had to grow up fast. Her husband is 37. She said it was hard to see her friends going out to the clubs while she had to go home and take care of kids. Kaysar doesn't go to clubs and do those things, but his thing is, when you get married he wants to take his wife out on dates and have personal time. Danielle says it is important to have date nights when married. Kaysar is really asking how to make a relationship work when kids come into the picture. Danielle says some focus on the kids so much when the kids leave the couple is left wondering who they are married to. Danielle says don't rush into marriage and that Kaysar is right to be picky. Kaysar also thinks that people feel someone is the right one and fall in love and then it is over and they are left wondering what happen. Divorce is to easy, people think once it doesn't work, you walk away. Kaysar says it is a constant effort from year 0 to year 40, your still working on marriage just as hard or it will turn into nothing. Dani says mutual respect is very important between her and her husband, keep being picky and don't compromise. You can't pick who you fall in love with, but you can pick who you marry. You can love someone but not respect them. Just more talk about marriage and love between Kaysar and Danielle.  Chick For Kaysar / Danielle Video